There are many organizations through which you can find out more information about BDSM & kinky stuff:
Adult Matchmaker:

Adult Matchmaker continues to sponsor and support many events in the BDSM and adult community. If you want to meet like minded people and explore, log onto Adult Matchmaker.
http://www.adultmatchmaker.com.au
http://www.fetish.datingguide.com.au/home.aspx
Sydney BDSM Calendar:
The most comprehensive Kink Calendar of Events for NSW. All events listed in an easy to read Month by Month Calendar. Bookmark this link for future reference
http://www.aussieadultgroups.com/nswbdsm
Sensual Ball:
The Sensual Ball is coming up the Queens birthday long weekend - Sunday 8th June.
Come and join us in the Extreme BDSM room!! The Sensual Ball attracts over 650 couples from all around Australia and caters for all tastes in a party atmosphere from swingers to nudist to BDSM and curious couples. Bring your friends and enjoy the great shows and 4 DJ's on the night!
http://www.sensualball.com
UBER :
Parties and play space: We are centrally located on the city fringe. See our website details:
http://www.uberservices.com
Petez Imagez:
Peter took some fantastic shots of our club night. Take a look at his website. For anything you may like photographed, please contact Pete at:
http://www.PetezImagez.com
Getting to know you Dinner/play parties
We cater for the experienced players and the curious newbie. G2KU parties are a great social function as well as a play party where any kink can be expressed. They are held on the 4th Saturday night of the month. Call cherry: 0418 863 311
ABODE – Melbournes Permier Alternative Club:
ABODE hosts some of Melbournes most uniquie, stylish and alternative events. Go to the BluAfterGlow website for full information on all the unique events or call 0412 510 424
http://www.BluAfterGlow.com
Citadel San Francisco:
San Francisco private members BDSM club: http://www.sfcitadel.org

Sabrina’s Resources:
Resources for people with alternative sexualities in Melbourne, including crossdressing, BDSM, group sex, non-mainstream sexuality, and the alternative scene
http://www.sabrina-melb-tv.com